The Ultimate Guide To Avoiding The 6 Biggest Divorce Mistakes

I'm Sharri Freedman

Attorney, Reinvention Coach, & Divorce Expert

After 25 years as a divorce attorney, I was ready for reinvention. It wasn’t until I discovered coaching that everything finally made sense. I had spent my whole life in my head, achieving, checking boxes, doing all the “right” things. Yet, like so many of my clients, life didn’t actually feel good. I wasn’t joyful or expansive. I was stressed, overwhelmed, and exhausted.

Here’s what became clear. Most of us were never taught how to feel. We numb, overwork, overthink, or stay busy so we don’t have to sit with what’s underneath. But that’s because most of us weren’t taught the science of transformation. Transformation happens when you’re connected to what you feel, aligned with what you want, and able to move forward with clarity, no matter the circumstance.

My work blends mindset, somatics, and intuitive guidance so you can connect with yourself at the deepest level. When your nervous system settles and your mind quiets, the answers rise with ease. They’ve always been there. You just couldn’t hear them until now.

As an attorney, it was my job to educate, advise, and fiercely advocate for my clients.

I successfully litigated contentious custody and child support cases, as well as cases involving complex property and alimony issues. My clients often won their cases, but they still walked away emotionally drained, with lives that felt upended and lacking the clarity they needed to move forward.

When I discovered coaching, and later Neuro-Identity Evolution®, everything clicked. Women don’t just need strategy. They need the ability to stay grounded as their lives shift. Then, they need the skills to consciously let go of what’s no longer working, make decisions they won’t regret, and move forward in a way that honors who they’re becoming.

This is the heart of my work. I guide women through the deeply personal process of reinvention, not by pushing them into a new life but by teaching them how to navigate change with clarity, self-trust, and emotional steadiness.

Supporting women to become LIBERATED is why I do this work. As I continue to evolve, so does my practice, because supporting a woman who realizes her life is no longer aligned with who she is goes far beyond divorce.

Combining 30+ years of legal wisdom and experience with nervous system regulation, mindset, somatics, and subconscious reprogramming, I’ll guide you through divorce and the reinvention that follows so you can trust yourself under pressure, make decisions without regret, and stop abandoning yourself to keep everyone else comfortable.

Whether you’re contemplating divorce, in the thick of it, or already on the other side, I’ll help you stop waiting for certainty and start looking forward to who you get to become.

Degrees/Certifications

Trainings

Certified Neuro-Identity Evolution Practitioner
CDC Certified Divorce Coach

A Little Bit More About Me

In my free time I love traveling, cooking and working out.

I enjoy reading, creative writing, and learning about how the brain & body work together.

Spending quality time and connecting with family and friends nourishes my soul.

Kind words from clients

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